Have You Ever Been Somewhere Where Everyone Talks Too Loudly...Even Yells Routinely?? It's Called Arrogance Whether They Know It Or Not!

Arrogance appears in society in many forms and not just in those committing crimes.  And you can be an Esther when you refuse to allow anyone to speak to you disrespectfully whether they refuse to call you by your name instead of:: "Hey guys!"  Or especially if they speak directly at you yelling....simply by ignoring them you can really change their attitude and behavior.

Just today my Darling and I visited the Hammond Louisiana Senior Center where we both actually still are at right now in their computer lab after lunch has been served, eaten and the arrogant big mouths are now gone...most ride the van that picks many regulars up from their homes and drive them home also after the morning fun and meal is over.

Though for my William & I and some of the regulars who have admitted to me hating the loud volume of yelling...many seniors who are able to cook for themselves continue to go anyway because they do not like being home alone.

When these persons refuse to respond to anyone who does not speak to them in a normal calm low not quiet voice...simply without yelling...

When such persons refuse to sit with noisy ones....and correct them as they get up and leave.
My William & I observed one African American man today who was the object of another African American man's nasty language spoken at high volumes stand up and leave.

The African man still remaining at the table was left without someone to take his nasty abuse..this man grumbled a bit but not for long, for others also moved from his table to another and his loud arrogance was muffled to a sour low mumble.

This man who knew what and who was worth holding onto and who was simply not...
He knowing when to walk away and when to run was noticed by us who sat far on the opposite side of a very large dining area.


If my husband were to see this man who was leading in a quiet humble way, in another public  place on another day...
I know my husband if he were to recognize him would respect this honorable man...and would enjoy quiet conversation with him if the opportunity were to happen....

Where all these who greeted us upon our entry with loud "How Ya doin's"...from them we RUN Fast the other way.

So many hungry for friendship but know one knows how to be gentle & kind.

Because so many forms of arrogance have become so prevalent and common every where possibly imaginable, many are suckered into sinful living even though they do not want to be.

Sometimes this habit is formed so as to be noticed saying with one's volume rather than with words:  "Look at me...I am important.

Ironically all who speak much louder than necessary are actually hungry for friends....hungry for your friendship...

hungry for our friendship.

How unusual it is but true that all of these only yearn for our friendship may never realize that they would have received our friendship had they spoken gently, softly and kind.

Though we explained this to several loud ones we wonder if it will actually sink into their minds that they can calm down and receive that that they yearn for most.

 Whether you are a a woman young or old;

A man old or young....you too can be an Esther or a Jacob too when you require others to speak respectfully and kindly to you as you also likewise in turn speak respectively and kindly to them in normal soft tone of voice instead of raising your volume to theirs.

 

Whether an Esther or a Jacob, never discount your influence to change society from living in prisons of their own making...at one function at a time.